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Chapter 353
ﻲﻓ ﺾﻌﺑ ﻰﻠﻋ ﻩدﻻوأ ﺾﻌﺑ ﺪﻟاﻮﻟا ﻞﻴﻀﻔﺗ ﺔهاﺮآ بﺎﺑ
ﺔﺒﻬﻟا
Prohibition of giving preference to Children over one another in giving Gifts,
etc.
1773
َﻘَﻓ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا لﻮﺳَر ِﻪِﺑ ﻰَﺗَأ ُﻩﺎَﺑَأ ﱠنَأ ﺎَﻤُﻬْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا َﻲِﺿر ٍﺮﻴِﺸَﺑ ِﻦْﺑ ِنﺎَﻤْﻌﱡﻨﻟا ِﻦَﻋ
َلﺎ :
ﻲﱢﻧِإ
اﺬه ﻲﻨْﺑا ُﺖْﻠَﺤَﻧ
، ﻲﻟ َنﺎَآ ًﺎﻣﻼُﻏ
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر َلﺎَﻘَﻓ
:
»
؟اﺬَه َﻞْﺜِﻣ ُﻪَﺘْﻠﺤَﻧ َكِﺪَﻟَو ﱠﻞُآَأ
«
لﺎَﻘَﻓ :
ﻻ
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر َلﺎَﻘَﻓ ،
:
»
ُﻪْﻌِﺟْرَﺄﻓ
«
.
ٍﺔَﻳاَوِر ﻲﻓو
:
ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُلﻮُﺳَر َلﺎَﻘَﻓ
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ
:
»
؟ ْﻢِﻬﱢﻠُآ َكِﺪَﻟَﻮِﺑ اﺬَه َﺖْﻠَﻌَﻓَأ
«
َلﺎَﻗ :
ﻻ
َلﺎَﻗ ،
:
» اﻮُﻘﱠﺗا
ْﻢُآِدﻻْوَأ ﻲﻓ اﻮُﻟِﺪْﻋاَو ﻪﱠﻠﻟا
«
َﺔَﻗَﺪﱠﺼﻟا َﻚْﻠﺗ ﱠدﺮَﻓ ، ﻲﺑَأ َﻊَﺟَﺮَﻓ
.
ٍﺔَﻳاَوِر ﻲﻓو
:
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮُﺳر لﺎَﻘَﻓ
:
» ﻴِﺸَﺑ ﺎَﻳ
؟ اﺬَه ىَﻮِﺳ ٌﺪَﻟَو َﻚَﻟَأ ُﺮ
َلﺎَﻗ :
ْﻢَﻌَﻧ
لﺎَﻗ ، :
»
؟ اﺬَه َﻞْﺜِﻣ ُﻪَﻟ َﺖْﺒَهَو ْﻢُﻬﱠﻠُآَأ
«
َلﺎَﻗ :
، ﻻ
َلﺎﻗ :
»
ٍرْﻮَﺟ ﻰﻠَﻋ ُﺪَﻬْﺷَأ ﻻ ﻲﱢﻧِﺈَﻓ ًاذِإ ﻲﻧْﺪِﻬْﺸُﺗ ﻼَﻓ
«
.
ٍﺔَﻳاَوِر ﻲﻓَو
:
»
ٍرْﻮَﺟ ﻰﻠَﻋ ﻲﻧْﺪِﻬْﺸُﺗ ﻻ
«
.
ٍﺔﻳاور ﻲﻓو
:
»
ﻰﻠَﻋ ْﺪﻬْﺷَأ
، يِﺮْﻴَﻏ اﺬه
«
َلﺎَﻗ ﱠﻢُﺛ
:
»
؟ ًءاَﻮَﺳ ﱢﺮِﺒْﻟا ﻲﻓ َﻚْﻴَﻟِإ اﻮُﻧﻮُﻜَﻳ ْنَأ َكﱡﺮُﺴَﻳَأ
«
َلﺎَﻗ :
ﻰﻠﺑ
،
َلﺎَﻗ :
» ًاذِإ ﻼَﻓ
«
ﻪﻴﻠﻋ ٌﻖﻔﺘﻣ
.
1773.
An-Nu`man bin Bashir (May Allah be pleased with them) said: My father took me to the Messenger of Allah
(PBUH) and said to him: "I have gifted one of my slaves to this son of mine.'' The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said,
"
Have you given such gift to every son of yours?
'' He replied, "No.'' Thereupon he said, "
Take this gift back
.''
Another narration is: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "
Be mindful of your obligation to Allah and do justice
in respect of your children.
'' My father came back and revoked his gift.
Another narration is: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) asked, "
Have you other children besides this one?
'' He said,
"Yes.'' The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) asked, "
Have you awarded a gift like this to all of them
.'' He said, "No.''
The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "
I am not going to bear witness to this act of injustice
.''
Another narration is: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) asked, "
Do you not except goodness from all of them as you
except from him?
'' He said, "Yes, of course.'' The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "
Then don't do this (i.e., do not
give a gift to one son only)
.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Commentary:
We learn from this Hadith the following important points:
1. In every matter, one should consult scholars and experts of Shari`ah. This was the practice of the Companions
(May Allah be pleased with them).
2. Parents should deal with all their children with equity and justice. Preferential treatment with any child affects
them adversely. Obviously injustice creates tension for parents as well as children and eventually family ties are
broken.
3. This Hadith is also advanced by those `Ulama' in support of their contention that if a person wants to distribute his
property among his children during his lifetime, he should not make any discrimination among his male and female
children and should give an equal share to all of them.
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