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Chapter 360
بﺎﺠﻋإ ﻦﻣ ةﺪﺴﻔﻣ ﻪﻴﻠﻋ ﻒﻴﺧ ﻦﻤﻟ ﻪﺟﻮﻟا ﻲﻓ حﺪﻤﻟا ﺔهاﺮآ بﺎﺑ
Undesirability of Praising a Person in his Presence
1788
َلﺎَﻗ ُﻪْﻨَﻋ ُﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ﱢيِﺮﻌْﺷﻷا ﻰﺳﻮُﻣ ﻲﺑأ ْﻦَﻋ
:
ٍﻞُﺟَر ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﻲﻨْﺜُﻳ ًﻼُﺟَر ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﱡﻲﺒﱠﻨﻟا َﻊِﻤَﺳ
َلﺎَﻘَﻓ ، ِﺔَﺣْﺪﻤﻟا ﻲﻓ ِﻪﻳِﺮْﻄُﻳَو
:
»
ِﻞُﺟﱠﺮﻟا َﺮﻬَﻇ ْﻢُﺘْﻌﻄَﻗ ْوأ ، ْﻢُﺘْﻜَﻠْهأ
«
ِﻪﻴﻠﻋ ٌﻖﻔﺘﻣ
.
«
ُءاَﺮْﻃﻹاَو
«
: َﻟﺎﺒُﻤﻟا
ِحْﺪَﻤﻟا ﻲﻓ ُﺔَﻐ
.
1788.
Abu Musa Al-Ash`ari (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (PBUH) heard a person lauding
another person or praising him too much. Thereupon he said, "
You killed the man,
'' or he said, "
You ruined the
man
.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
1789
ٌﻞُﺟَر ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ﻰَﻨْﺛَﺄَﻓ ، ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻲﺒﻨﻟا َﺪْﻨِﻋ َﺮِآَذ ًﻼُﺟر ﱠنأ ُﻪْﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ةَﺮْﻜَﺑ ﻲﺑأ ْﻦَﻋَو
ًاﺮْﻴَﺧ
ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻲﺒﻨﻟا َلﺎَﻘَﻓ ،
:
»
َﻚﺒِﺣﺎَﺻ َﻖُﻨُﻋ ﺖْﻌَﻄَﻗ َﻚَﺤْﻳو
«
ًاراَﺮِﻣ ُﻪُﻟﻮُﻘﻳ
»
ﻻ ًﺎﺣِدﺎَﻣ ْﻢُآُﺪَﺣأ َنﺎَآ ْنإ
ْﻞُﻘَﻴْﻠَﻓ ، َﺔَﻟﺎَﺤَﻣ
:
ٌﺪَﺣأ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻰَﻠﻋ ﻰﱠآَﺰُﻳ َﻻو ، ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ُﻪُﺒﻴِﺴَﺣَو ، َﻚِﻟَﺬَآ ُﻪﱠﻧأ ىَﺮَﻳ َنﺎَآ ْنإ اَﺬَآو اَﺬَآ ُﺐِﺴْﺣَأ
«
ﻖﻔﺘﻣ
ﻪﻴﻠﻋ .
1789.
Abu Bakrah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Mention of a man was made to the Prophet (PBUH)
and someone praised him whereupon he (PBUH) said,
"Woe be to you! You have broken the neck of your friend!
''
He repeated this several times and added, "
If one of you has to praise his friend at all, he should say: `I reckon him
to be such and such and Allah knows him well', if you think him to be so-and-so, you will be accountable to Allah
because no one can testify the purity of others against Allah.
''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Commentary:
This Hadith prohibits us from praising anyone in his face. If at all one has to praise someone, he
should say that "In my opinion he is such and such,'' provided he really thinks as he says. The reason for this is that
it is Allah Alone Who knows him thoroughly and none can claim to be innocent before Him.
1790
، ﻪﻨﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر َنﺎَﻤْﺜُﻋ ُحَﺪْﻤَﻳ ﻞَﻌﺟ ًﻼُﺟَر ﱠنأ ُﻪْﻨَﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ِداَﺪْﻘِﻤﻟا ِﻦﻋ ، ِثِرﺎَﺤْﻟا ِﻦﺑ ِمﺎﱠﻤَه ْﻦَﻋَو
ُﻪَﻟ َلﺎَﻘَﻓ ،َءﺎَﺒْﺼَﺤْﻟا ِﻪِﻬْﺟَو ﻲﻓ ﻮُﺜْﺤَﻳ َﻞَﻌَﺠَﻓ ، ِﻪْﻴَﺘَﺒْآُر ﻰَﻠَﻋ ﺎَﺜَﺠَﻓ ، ُداﺪْﻘِﻤﻟا َﺪِﻤَﻌَﻓ
ُنﺎَﻤْﺜُﻋ :
؟ َﻚُﻧْﺄَﺷ ﺎَﻣ
َلﺎَﻘَﻓ :
ﱠنإ
َلﺎَﻗ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ِﻪﱠﻠﻟا َلﻮُﺳَر
:
»
َباﺮﱡﺘﻟا ُﻢِﻬِهﻮُﺟَو ﻲﻓ اﻮُﺜْﺣﺎَﻓ ، َﻦﻴِﺣاﱠﺪَﻤﻟا ُﻢُﺘْﻳَأَر اَذإ
«
ﻢﻠﺴﻣ ُﻩاَوَر
.
َﺮﻴِﺜآ ُﺚﻳِدﺎَﺣأ ِﺔَﺣﺎَﺑﻹا ﻲﻓ َءﺎَﺟَو ، ِﻲْﻬﱠﻨﻟا ﻲﻓ ُﺚﻳِدﺎَﺣﻷا ِﻩِﺬَﻬَﻓ
ٌﺔَﺤﻴِﺤَﺻ ٌة
.
ُءﺎَﻤَﻠُﻌﻟا ًَلﺎَﻗ
:
َلﺎَﻘُﻳ ْنأ ِﺚﻳِدﺎَﺣﻷا َﻦْﻴَﺑ ِﻊْﻤَﺠﻟا ُﻖﻳﺮﻃَو
:
ُﺔَﺿﺎَﻳرَو ، ٍﻦﻴِﻘَﻳَو ٍنﺎَﻤﻳإ ُلﺎَﻤَآ ُﻩَﺪْﻨِﻋ ُحوُﺪْﻤَﻤﻟا َنﺎَآ ْنإ
ِﻪِﺑ ُﺐَﻌْﻠَﺗ ﻻَو ، َﻚِﻟَﺬِﺑ ﱡﺮَﺘْﻐَﻳ ﻻَو ، ُﻦِﺘَﺘْﻔَﻳ ﻻ ُﺚْﻴَﺤِﺑ ٌﺔﱠﻣﺎَﺗ ﺔَﻓِﺮْﻌَﻣَو ، ٍﺲْﻔَﻧ
ْنإو ، ٍﻩوُﺮْﻜَﻣ ﻻَو ٍماَﺮَﺤِﺑ َﺲْﻴَﻠَﻓ ، ُﻪُﺴْﻔَﻧ
ُلﱠﺰﻨُﺗ ِﻞﻴِﺼْﻔﱠﺘﻟا اَﺬَه ﻰَﻠَﻋو ، ًةَﺪﻳِﺪَﺷ ًﺔَهاَﺮَآ ِﻪِﻬْﺟَو ﻲﻓ ُﻪُﺣْﺪَﻣ َﻩِﺮُآ ِرﻮُﻣﻷا ِﻩِﺬَه ْﻦﻣ ٍءﻲَﺷ ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ َﻒﻴِﺧ
ُﺚﻳدﺎﺣﻷا
َﻚِﻟَذ ﻲﻓ ﺔَﻔﻠَﺘﺨُﻤﻟا
.
ﻰّﻠَﺻ ُﻪُﻟْﻮَﻗ ِﺔَﺣﺎَﺑﻹا ﻲﻓ َءﺎَﺟ ﺎﱠﻤِﻣَو
ُﻪْﻨَﻋ ﻪًﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر ٍﺮْﻜَﺑ ﻲﺑﻷ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا
:
»
ْنأ ﻮُﺟْرأ
ْﻢُﻬْﻨِﻣ َنﻮُﻜَﺗ
«
ْيأ
:
ِﺮَﺧﻵا ِﺚﻳﺪَﺤﻟا ﻲﻓو ، ﺎَﻬِﻟﻮُﺧُﺪِﻟ ِﺔﱠﻨَﺠْﻟا ِباﻮْﺑأ ِﻊﻴِﻤَﺟ ْﻦِﻣ َنْﻮَﻋْﺪُﻳ َﻦﻳِﺬﱠﻟا َﻦِﻣ
:
»
ْﻢُﻬْﻨِﻣ َﺖْﺴَﻟ
«
ْيأ
:
َرُزُأ َنﻮُﻠِﺒْﺴُﻳ َﻦﻳِﺬﱠﻟا َﻦِﻣ َﺖْﺴَﻟ
َءﻼَﻴُﺧ ْﻢُه
.
ُﻪْﻨَﻋ ﻪﱠﻠﻟا ﻲﺿر َﺮَﻤُﻌِﻟ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ َلﺎَﻗَو
:
» َكﺁَر ﺎَﻣ
ﻚﱢﺠَﻓ َﺮْﻴَﻏ ﺎّﺠَﻓ َﻚﻠﺳ ﱠﻻإ ﺎّﺠَﻓ ًﺎﻜِﻟﺎَﺳ ُنﺎَﻄْﻴﱠﺸﻟا
«
ﺎَﻬِﻓاَﺮْﻃأ ْﻦِﻣ ًﺔَﻠْﻤُﺟ ُتْﺮَآَذ ْﺪَﻗَو ، ٌةَﺮﻴِﺜَآ ِﺔَﺣﺎَﺑﻹا ﻲﻓ ُﺚﻳِدﺎَﺣﻷاَو ،
بﺎﺘآ ﻲﻓ
: » ْذﻷا
رﺎَآ «.
1790.
Hammam bin Al- Harith (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: A person began to praise `Uthman (May
Allah be pleased with him), and Al-Miqdad (May Allah be pleased with him) sat upon his knees and began to throw
pebbles upon the flatterer's face. `Uthman (May Allah be pleased with him) said: "What is the matter with you?'' He
said: "Verily, the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, `
When you see those who shower undue praises upon others
throw dust upon their faces.
'''
[Muslim].
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