Page 4 - Your relationship with Allah

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Take care of him.................................................................................................................................................... 45
Don’t complain about his shortfalls to his family or to your family members ..................................................... 45
Don’t argue with him when he is angry ................................................................................................................ 46
Be sensible what you spend from his earnings ..................................................................................................... 46
Don’t ask him for more than he can afford........................................................................................................... 46
Don’t complain to him about his parents or his family......................................................................................... 47
Don’t say no when he wants to intimate with you unless you’ve a reason to say so. ......................................... 47
CHAPTER 8 ........................................................................................................................................................ 48
Relationship with the Children.............................................................................................................................. 48
Teach them about Islam........................................................................................................................................ 48
Teach them to pray ............................................................................................................................................... 48
Instil the love of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and teach them to read Qur’an with tajweed................... 49
Give them an Islamic environment ....................................................................................................................... 49
Teach them to take care of needy ........................................................................................................................ 49
Dress them according to Islamic ruling ................................................................................................................. 50
Develop the love for Allah and Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam in their hearts ............................................. 50
Teach them to thank Allah for the blessings......................................................................................................... 51
Love them, hug them, and kiss them frequently .................................................................................................. 51
Treat all your children equally............................................................................................................................... 51
Reward them for their good actions and appreciate them .................................................................................. 51
Teach them to select good friends for themselves............................................................................................... 52
CHAPTER 9 ........................................................................................................................................................ 53
Relationship with Relatives ................................................................................................................................... 53
Be kind to them and treat them respectfully........................................................................................................ 53
Don’t compete with them..................................................................................................................................... 53