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Chapter 137
ﻪﺘﺟوز ﻰﻠﻋ ﻞﺟﺮﻟا مﻼﺳ بﺎﺑ
Greeting one's Wife and other Women
لﺎﻗ ﻪﻨﻋ ﷲا ﻲﺿر ﺪﻌﺳ ﻦﺑ ﻞﻬﺳ ﻦﻋ
ﺔﻳاور ﻲﻓو ٌةَأَﺮْﻣا ﺎﻨﻴﻓ ْﺖَﻧﺎآ
ِلﻮُﺻَُأ ْﻦﻣ ُﺬُﺧْﺄﺗ ٌزﻮُﺠَﻋ ﺎﻨَﻟ ْﺖَﻧﺎآ
ﱠﻠَﺻ اذﺈﻓ ، ٍﺮﻴِﻌَﺷ ْﻦﻣ ٍتﺎﱠﺒَﺣ ُﺮِآْﺮَﻜُﺗَو ِرْﺪِﻘﻟا ﻲﻓ ُﻪُﺣَﺮْﻄﺘﻓ َﻖْﻠﱢﺴﻟا
ﺎَﻨْﻴﻟإ ُﻪُﻣﱢﺪﻘُﺘَﻓ ﺎﻬْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﻢﱢﻠَﺴُﻧ ﺎَﻨْﻓَﺮَﺼْﻧاو َﺔَﻌُﻤُﺠﻟا ﺎﻨْﻴ
يرﺎﺨﺒﻟا ﻩاور
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ُﻦَﺤﻄَﺗ يأ
Sahl bin Sa`d (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
There was a woman among us who would put beet
root in a pot and add to it some ground barley. She used to cook them together. On returning from the Friday prayer,
we would greet her and she would offer it to us.
ﺖﻟﺎَﻗ ﺎَﻬْﻨَﻋ ﷲا ﻲﺿر ﺐﻟﺎَﻃ ﻲﺑأ ِﺖﻨِﺑ َﺔَﺘِﺧﺎﻓ ﺊﻧﺎه مُأ ﻦﻋو
ﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻲﺒﻨﻟا ﺖﻴﺗأ
ﺢْﺘَﻔﻟا َمْﻮَﻳ ﻢ
ُﺖْﻤﱠﻠَﺴَﻓ ٍبْﻮَﺜِﺑ ُﻩﺮُﺘْﺴَﺗ ُﺔﻤِﻃﺎﻓَو ُﻞِﺴﺘْﻐَﻳ ﻮُهَو
ﺚﻳﺪﺤﻟا تَﺮَآَذو
ﻢﻠﺴﻣ ﻩاور
Umm Hani (May Allah be pleased with her), the daughter of Abu Talib reported:
I went to the Prophet (PBUH)
on the day of the conquest of Makkah. He was taking a bath and Fatimah was screening him with a cloth. I greeted
him. And she mentioned the rest of the Hadith.
ﺖﻟﺎﻗ ﺎﻬﻨﻋ ﷲا ﻲﺿر ﺪﻳﺰﻳ ِﺖﻨﺑ َءﺎﻤﺳأ ﻦﻋو
َﻢﱠﻠَﺴَﻓ ٍةَﻮْﺴِﻧ ﻲﻓ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ ﻲﺒﻨﻟا ﺎﻨﻴﻠﻋ ﺮﻣ
ْﻴَﻠَﻋ ﺎَﻨ
لﺎﻗو يﺬﻣﺮﺘﻟاو ، دواد ﻮﺑأ ﻩاور
يﺬﻣﺮﺘﻟا ﻆﻔﻟ و ،دواد ﻲﺑأ ﻆﻔﻟ اﺬهو ، ﻦﺴﺣ ﺚﻳﺪﺣ
ﷲا لﻮﺳر نأ
ِﻢﻴﻠﺴﱠﺘﻟﺎﺑ ِﻩِﺪَﻴِﺑ ىﻮﻟﺄﻓ دﻮُﻌُﻗ ِءﺎَﺴﱢﻨﻟا ﻦﻣ ٌﺔَﺒْﺼُﻋو ًﺎﻣْﻮﻳ ِﺪِﺠْﺴْﻤﻟا ﻲﻓ ﱠﺮَﻣ ﻢﱠﻠَﺳو ِﻪْﻴَﻠَﻋ ُﷲا ﻰّﻠَﺻ
Asma bint Yazid (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
The Prophet (PBUH) passed by us when we were
with a party of women, and he greeted us.
[Abu Dawud].
The permissibility of men to greet women, and vice versa, is with the condition that there will be no
fear of temptation to commit the unlawful. Here are the details:
1. A young woman is forbidden to greet men and to respond to their greeting.
2. A group of women or an old woman are allowed to greet men and to respond to men's greetings. Men are also
allowed to greet a group of women or an old woman.
3. A man on his own is not allowed to greet a young woman.
4. A man on his own is allowed to greet a group of women.
However, in all these cases, Islamic rules in this regard, including the lowering of the gaze, are to be observed.